Well it has been and busy and interesting couple of days. We flew to Nanchang on Sunday, it was about a 2 hour flight and mostly bumpy-I think I am due some smooth flights!!! It is a little cooler but still very humid in Nanchang. Nanchang is mostly an industrial city, surrounded by mountains, and farm land (mostly rice). The farm land is mostly where these children are from, and Darci’s orphanage is about 3 hours from Nanchang. Once we arrived in Nanchang (there are 6 families that traveled here) we were brought to the hotel to unwind (like that was really going to happen). At around 3:45pm we headed over to the civil building where the babies were being brought to by the orphanage directors. 4 of the families were receiving their children from one orphanage and me and another couple were receiving our children from a different orphanage. We walked from our hotel to the civil building by crossing a busy street. While that might sound easy, it was not!! The Chinese may have traffic laws but I really think that they might be suggestions and not laws!!! Once we got to the civil building we went to the large room where the babies from the first orphanage (not Darci’s orphanage) were waiting. There were a lot of tears and scared children in that room!! After about 45 minutes we found out that the van carrying Darci was an hour away. So back we went to the hotel, crossing that busy street to wait a little longer. We went to our room and about 1 hour later we received a call to come to a conference room in the hotel. As I was walking down the hall I heard a child crying and she has not stopped much since then!!! Actually they handed her to me and she was very scared and tearful. We stayed in that room a while and then went upstairs to our room. She cried most of that evening but there were a couple of moments when we actually got her to smile!!! Bedtime was not too bad, she would not lay down so she fell asleep sitting down in her crib, I eventually was able to lay her down and she slept all night until 6am. Today we went back to the civil building (luckily we all got in a van and did not have to cross that busy street) and did some paper work. Darci cried most of the time there but once we got back in the van she quieted down. We then headed to the notary and some more crying and then eventually to WalMart-where she was quite content!! We are now back in the room resting quietly!! OK that would not be true-she just woke up, so a little crying is in order!! Leave it to the pediatric nurse to have the irritable child and no drugs!!!! Well I best sign off for now.
Nanchang
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18 responses to “Nanchang”
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Oooo, I thought about you all all day yesterday! The crying will subside. Then when she is about 13, all those tears will be back because you will refuse to drop her off at the mall by herself with her friends! She is so cute! Thank goodness we have Walmarts! Might be your new “drug of choice” to assuage her! I know you know this , but time will be your ally as you and Darci bond. Thank you for the pictures and we can’t wait to meet her. I love you,
Kristen -
Jackie, I noticed she is standing by the bed Is she taking steps? She looks very strong and healthy!!! I love her little haircut!!
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She’s perfect! She is definitly your child if she likes that shopping! I am so happy for you and her. Soon the crying will end and the giggles and smiles will take over. Barry Tully and I are looking forward to meeting her. Take Care and tell Diane we are thinking about her too!
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She is beautiful. Don’t worry-she will relax when she gets to know you. There is a lot of stranger anxiety at that age. I am so happy for you both. She is a very lucky little girl! I can’t wait to meet her.
Enjoy!
Madhu -
Jackie,
Real life can be a challenge.As the adjustment is made, there will be so many great experiences and memories. There is nothing better than loving and being loved. You all will be snuggling and laughing soon.Looking forward to your return with Darcie.
Pat -
So happy for you, Jackie. Can’t imagine the excitement.. Looking forward to seeing you and your new daughter when you get here. Love to you both.
Kelly
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Congratulations Jackie! I’m so excited for you. I can’t wait to see you and Darci in Chicago.
Love,
Mike -
Hi Jackie I can’t wait to meet Darci. I made her a stuffed animal.Can’t wait to see you and Darci.
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Jackie:
Wow! Very cool! Of course she quieted down in Wal-Mart – she is a future shopper! It is really wonderful to see these first pictures; can’t wait to meet her!
Love,
Dave, Mitzi, Derek, Scott and Julia
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Jackie!!! The baby looks great even though shes crying a lot. I read in a baby book that babies love to eat at Portillos so youre gonna have to stay in Chicago for a while 🙂 and I can teach you how to text without all caps!!!!!!! See you soon
-Andrew -
Congratulations – while it’s rough on you, look at it this way – Darci is developmentally normal! And she will come to trust and love you very very much. It’s just going to take some time. You are all in my thoughts and prayers. Jeanne
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You both look scared as all get out. Hope things are getting better for both you. I’m sure you have the charm turned up full blast. She is beautiful when she isnt crying.
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Dear Jackie and Darci,
Congratulations! It will get better….we have drugs! We can not wait for you both to come home. Try to enjoy your time there and we will see you soon! -
She is cute as a button. Can’t wait to meet her!!
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Oh, my! As long as Mommy isn’t crying, I’d say it’s all a great success! Keep the notes and pics coming…she’s gorgeous!
Lynn -
Hi Jackie,
What excitement to finally see your first picture together. She’s adorable and looks much tinier than the previous picture……she must have had layers of clothes on before. I think it’s pretty funny that she quieted down in Wal-Mart………wait till she sees Macy’s!!!!! Yup, she landed with the right Mommy!!!!!
I had everyone over yesterday, and periodically we would break away and check the blog, so it was great to see your newsy post along with pictures this morning.
Thinking about you all the time……..enjoy your first days with your daughter.
Love,
Auntie -
Wow, i am so excited for you, you finally are able to hold your daughter. What a joyous event. It also sounds like she likes to shop. Looking forward to more pictures.



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